Hi, I’m Alexandra
Inside this work, you’ll begin to cultivate:
🖤 A quiet confidence that comes from living in your truth
🖤 A deeper relationship with yourself
🖤 Emotional tools you’ll carry for life
🖤 A way of living that brings intimacy and meaning into the everyday moments
As a counsellor, psychodynamic therapist and coach, I guide these shifts with care, insight, and lived understanding
Feeling real is more than existing. It’s finding a way to exist as oneself. And to have a self into which to retreat for relaxation…
Donald Winnicot
Hi, I’m Alex. 🖤
I help people build self-trust, presence, and deeper connection to themselves and others. My approach blends reflective exploration with actionable steps, grounded in authenticity, integrity, and human experience.
I’m an ACA Level 3 counsellor, accredited ICF coach, qualified relationship coach, and practicing psychodynamic therapist. My work is informed by both professional training and lived experience: a journey through creativity, self-discovery, and learning to feel fully and authentically.
Early in my twenties, I completed a yearlong gender equality training. This became a defining moment in reclaiming my voice and understanding power dynamics in relationships, solidifying my identity as a feminist and activist.
Professionally, I’ve worked alongside psychologists with clients experiencing complex mental health challenges. My focus now is on creating a space where people of all genders, sexualities, and experiences—including those navigating trauma, addiction, neurodivergence, or LGBTQI+ identities—can feel safe, seen, and supported.
In sessions with me, you’re invited to explore, feel, and grow without judgment. Together, we’ll cultivate connection, presence, and a deeper trust in yourself—so you can live with more freedom, love, and authenticity.
Testimonials
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Definitely recommend and highly relatable! I have worked alongside Alex for years, and I highly respect her effort, openness, and support for her colleagues and clients! She has motivational and creative ways of working with clients. If you're thinking of working with her, I'd highly recommend!
Krista Patti- Registered Psychologist -Empowering Minds Disability Services- Melton, Victoria
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I just want to say thank you to Alex. She helped me build happier and stable relationships, my overall energy had shifted and I won the beauty peagant feeling like my best self. My personal experience of being in unhealthy relationships has led me to advocate for victims of domestic voilence who suffer in silence and I feel alot of women could benefit from working with Alex.
Alessandra Amato - Model and Advocate for Domestic Violence- Ms Woman West Coast
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Contact us.
alexandrarubenis@outlook.com