Create the love story you want

Hi I’m Love Coach Alexandra, psychodynamic therapist and relationship coach, here
you’ll discover the unconscious patterns shaping your love life and learn how to create relationships with clarity and emotional intimacy.

Love is shaped beneath the surface—by early attachment, emotional memory, and unconscious patterns that quietly guide how we relate.

My work is grounded in psychodynamic therapy and relationship coaching, blending deep emotional insight with practical, forward-moving guidance. Together, we explore not just what is happening in your relationships, but why—so real change can unfold.

My Approach

1. We uncover the pattern
Every relationship tells a story. I help you identify recurring dynamics in dating, partnerships, and marriage—without blame or judgment.

2. We explore the emotional roots
Through a psychodynamic lens, we gently examine attachment styles, unmet needs, and early relational experiences that continue to shape your love life today.

3. We integrate insight with action
Awareness alone isn’t enough. I guide you in translating insight into clear boundaries, healthier communication, and conscious relational choices.

4. We create lasting connection
Whether you’re dating, in a long-term relationship, or married, the goal is the same: emotionally safe, intimate, and authentic connection.

What You Can Expect

A warm, intuitive, and non-judgmental space
Depth-oriented work with practical guidance
Support tailored to individuals and couples
Transformation that feels grounded, not forced

How I Work

Our Services

Counselling for Families and Children

When a child is struggling emotionally or behaviourally, it’s often a signal — not just of their inner world, but of something happening in the relational environment.

At Relational Align, I work with children and parents together to understand what’s going on beneath the surface. I support families to shift patterns, build safety, and create emotional connection that supports long-term wellbeing.

This isn’t about “fixing” children. It’s about giving them the safety and attunement they need to thrive.

NDIS

I offer counselling for NDIS self-managed and plan-managed participants.

Support is tailored to each client’s needs, including emotional regulation, relational support, and mental health care within a trauma-informed, neurodiversity-affirming framework.

If you're unsure whether you're eligible, feel free to get in touch..

Counselling for Teens

Teenagers often feel things deeply but don’t always have the words — or safe places — to express them.

I work with teens who are navigating anxiety, disconnection, self-worth issues, identity questions, or difficulty in family or peer relationships. Sessions are built on respect, honesty, and emotional safety — giving young people space to be heard without judgment or pressure.

My approach is relational, grounded, and sensitive to the developmental changes teens are moving through.

Love Coaching for Women

For women ready to shift patterns in love.
Rooted in the Rori Raye Method, this coaching supports you to:

Stay connected to yourself in dating or relationship
Set boundaries without guilt
Break cycles of overgiving or chasing
Build emotional safety and relational self-trust

Offered as a standalone service or alongside counselling.

Counselling for Adults

Our relational patterns often come from early experiences — and unless we look at them, they tend to repeat.

Whether you're feeling stuck in unhealthy relationship dynamics, navigating emotional overwhelm, or wanting to change how you communicate or connect, I support you to explore what's beneath the surface.

Together, we identify patterns, reconnect you to your emotional integrity, and build the tools you need to relate with more clarity and self-trust.

Alex is an accredited counsellor with the Australian Counselling Association (ACA), a registered coach with the International Coaching Federation (ICF), and a practicing psychodynamic therapist. She began her professional journey as a trained coach before expanding into therapeutic work, gaining extensive experience as a counsellor alongside a psychologist in Melton, Victoria.

She works with couples, men, and women navigating dating, committed relationships, and marriage, with a particular focus on supporting women in dating and romantic partnership. Her approach integrates psychodynamic psychotherapy, relational counselling, and relationship coaching to support both emotional depth and practical change.

Alex has supported families, Victims of Crime, and individuals across all stages of life—including children, adolescents, and adults—through anxiety, panic attacks, trauma, bullying, psychosis, and relational distress. She also works with autistic children, neurodivergent clients, and NDIS participants, offering care that is relational, trauma-informed, and deeply attuned.

As a worldwide relationship coach and counsellor, Alex offers global online sessions, supporting clients across countries and cultures. She is currently completing a two-year postgraduate program in psychodynamic psychotherapy, further grounding her work in attachment, intimacy, and long-term relational change.

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Testimonials

Definitely recommend and highly relatable! I have worked alongside Alex for years, and I highly respect her effort, openness, and support for her colleagues and clients! She has motivational and creative ways of working with clients. If you're thinking of working with her, I'd highly recommend!

Krista Patti- Registered Psychologist -Empowering Minds Disability Services- Melton, Victoria
I just want to say thank you to Alex. She helped me build happier and stable relationships, my overall energy had shifted and I won the beauty peagant feeling like my best self. My personal experience of being in unhealthy relationships has led me to advocate for victims of domestic voilence who suffer in silence and I feel alot of women could benefit from working with Alex.

Alessandra Amato - Model and Advocate for Domestic Violence- Ms Woman West Coast